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8 P e n g e r t i a n C i n t a M e n u r u t Q u r ' a n M e n u r u t h a d i s N a b i , o r a n g y a n g s e d a n g j a t u h c i n t a c e n d e r u n g s e l a l u m e n g i n g a t d a n m e n y e b u t o r a n g y a n g d i c i n t a i n y a ( m a n a h a b b a s y a i ' a n k a t s u r a d z i k r u h u ) , k a t a N a b i , o r a n g j u g a b i s a d i p e r b u d a k o l e h c i n t a n y a ( m a n a h a b b a s y a i ' a n f a h u w a ` a b d u h u ) . K a t a N a b i j u g a , c i r i d a r i c i n t a s e j a t i a d a t i g a : ( 1 ) l e b i h s u k a b e r b i c a r a d e n g a n y a n g d i c i n t a i d i b a n d i n g d e n g a n y a n g l a i n , ( 2 ) l e b i h s u k a b e r k u m p u l d e n g a n y a n g d i c i n t a i d i b a n d i n g d e n g a n y a n g l a i n , d a n ( 3 ) l e b i h s u k a m e n g i k u t i k e m a u a n y a n g d i c i n t a i d i b a n d i n g k e m a u a n o r a n g l a i n / d i r i s e n d i r i . B a g i o r a n g y a n g t e l a h j a t u h c i n t a k e p a d a A l l o h S W T , m a k a i a l e b i h s u k a b e r b i c a r a d e n g a n A l l o h S w t , d e n g a n m e m b a c a f i r m a n N y a , l e b i h s u k a b e r c e n g k e r a m a d e n g a n A l l o h S W T d a l a m I ` t i k a f , d a n l e b i h s u k a m e n g i k u t i p e r i n t a h A l l o h S W T d a r i p a d a p e r i n t a h y a n g l a i n . D a l a m Q u r ' a n c i n t a m e m i l i k i 8 p e n g e r t i a n b e r i k u t i n i p e n j e l a s a n n y a : 1 . C i n t a m a w a d d a h a d a l a h j e n i s c i n t a m e n g e b u - g e b u , m e m b a r a d a n " n g g e m e s i " . O r a n g y a n g m e m i l i k i c i n t a j e n i s m a w a d d a h , m a u n y a s e l a l u b e r d u a , e n g g a n b e r p i s a h d a n s e l a l u i n g i n m e m u a s k a n d a h a g a c i n t a n y a . I a i n g i n m e m o n o p o l i c i n t a n y a , d a n h a m p i r t a k b i s a b e r f i k i r l a i n . 2 . C i n t a r a h m a h a d a l a h j e n i s c i n t a y a n g p e n u h k a s i h s a y a n g , l e m b u t , s i a p b e r k o r b a n , d a n s i a p m e l i n d u n g i . O r a n g y a n g m e m i l i k i c i n t a j e n i s r a h m a h i n i l e b i h m e m p e r h a t i k a n o r a n g y a n g d i c i n t a i n y a d i b a n d i n g t e r h a d a p d i r i s e n d i r i . B a g i n y a y a n g p e n t i n g a d a l a h k e b a h a g i a a n s a n g k e k a s i h m e s k i u n t u k i t u i a h a r u s m e n d e r i t a . I a s a n g a t m e m a k l u m i k e k u r a n g a n k e k a s i h n y a d a n s e l a l u m e m a a f k a n k e s a l a h a n k e k a s i h n y a . T e r m a s u k d a l a m c i n t a r a h m a h a d a l a h c i n t a a n t a r o r a n g y a n g b e r t a l i a n d a r a h , t e r u t a m a c i n t a o r a n g t u a t e r h a d a p a n a k n y a , d a n s e b a l i k n y a . D a r i i t u m a k a d a l a m a l Q u r ' a n , k e r a b a t d i s e b u t a l a r h a m , d z a w i a l a r h a m , y a k n i o r a n g - o r a n g y a n g m e m i l i k i h u b u n g a n k a s i h s a y a n g s e c a r a f i t r i , y a n g b e r a s a l d a r i g a r b a k a s i h s a y a n g i b u , d i s e b u t r a h i m ( d a r i k a t a r a h m a h ) . S e j a k j a n i n s e o r a n g a n a k s u d a h d i l i p u t i o l e h s u a s a n a p s i k o l o g i s k a s i h s a y a n g d a l a m s a t u r u a n g y a n g d i s e b u t r a h i m . S e l a n j u t n y a d i a n t a r a o r a n g - o r a n g y a n g m e m i l i k i h u b u n g a n d a r a h d i a n j u r k a n u n t u k s e l a l u b e r s i l a t u r r a h i m , a t a u s i l a t u r r a h m i a r t i n y a m e n y a m b u n g t a l i k a s i h s a y a n g . S u a m i i s t e r i y a n g d i i k a t o l e h c i n t a m a w a d d a h d a n r a h m a h s e k a l i g u s b i a s a n y a s a l i n g s e t i a l a h i r b a t i n - d u n i a a k h i r a t . 3 . C i n t a m a i l , a d a l a h j e n i s c i n t a y a n g u n t u k s e m e n t a r a s a n g a t m e m b a r a , s e h i n g g a m e n y e d o t s e l u r u h p e r h a t i a n h i n g g a h a l - h a l l a i n c e n d e r u n g k u r a n g d i p e r h a t i k a n . C i n t a j e n i s m a i l i n i d a l a m a l Q u r ' a n d i s e b u t d a l a m k o n t e k s o r a n g p o l i g a m i d i m a n a k e t i k a s e d a n g j a t u h c i n t a k e p a d a y a n g m u d a ( a n t a m i l u k u l l a a l m a i l ) , c e n d e r u n g m e n g a b a i k a n k e p a d a y a n g l a m a . 4 . C i n t a s y a g h a f . A d a l a h c i n t a y a n g s a n g a t m e n d a l a m , a l a m i , o r i s i n i l d a n m e m a b u k k a n . O r a n g y a n g t e r s e r a n g c i n t a j e n i s s y a g h a f ( q a d s y a g h a f a h a h u b b a ) b i s a s e p e r t i o r a n g g i l a , l u p a d i r i d a n h a m p i r - h a m p i r t a k m e n y a d a r i a p a y a n g d i l a k u k a n . A l Q u r ' a n m e n g g u n a k a n t e r m s y a g h a f k e t i k a m e n g k i s a h k a n b a g a i m a n a c i n t a n y a Z u l a i k h a , i s t r i p e m b e s a r M e s i r k e p a d a b u j a n g n y a , Y u s u f . 5 . C i n t a r a ' f a h , y a i t u r a s a k a s i h y a n g d a l a m h i n g g a m e n g a l a h k a n n o r m a - n o r m a k e b e n a r a n , m i s a l n y a k a s i h a n k e p a d a a n a k s e h i n g g a t i d a k t e g a m e m b a n g u n k a n n y a u n t u k s a l a t , m e m b e l a n y a m e s k i p u n s a l a h . A l Q u r ' a n m e n y e b u t t e r m i n i k e t i k a m e n g i n g a t k a n a g a r j a n g a n l a h c i n t a r a ` f a h m e n y e b a b k a n o r a n g t i d a k m e n e g a k k a n h u k u m A l l a h , d a l a m h a l i n i k a s u s h u k u m a n b a g i p e z i n a ( Q / 2 4 : 2 ) . 6 . C i n t a s h o b w a h , y a i t u c i n t a b u t a , c i n t a y a n g m e n d o r o n g p e r i l a k u p e n y i m p a n g t a n p a s a n g g u p m e n g e l a k . 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K a l i m a t k e r i n d u a n i n i k e m u d i a n d i u n g k a p k a n d a l a m d o a m a ' t s u r d a r i h a d i s r i w a y a t A h m a d ; w a a s ' a l u k a l a d z z a t a a n n a d z o r i i l a w a j h i k a w a a s s y a u q a i l a l i q a ' i k a , a k u m o h o n d a p a t m e r a s a k a n n i k m a t n y a m e m a n d a n g w a j a h M u d a n n i k m a t n y a k e r i n d u a n u n t u k b e r j u m p a d e n g a n M u . M e n u r u t I b n a l Q a y y i m a l J a u z i d a l a m k i t a b R a u d l a t a l M u h i b b i n w a N u z h a t a l M u s y t a q i n , S y a u q ( r i n d u ) a d a l a h p e n g e m b a r a a n h a t i k e p a d a s a n g k e k a s i h ( s a f a r a l q a l b i l a a l m a h b u b ) , d a n k o b a r a n c i n t a y a n g a p i n y a b e r a d a d i d a l a m h a t i s a n g p e c i n t a , h u r q a t a l m a h a b b a h w a i l t i h a b n a r u h a f i q a l b a l m u h i b b i 8 . C i n t a k u l f a h . y a k n i p e r a s a a n c i n t a y a n g d i s e r t a i k e s a d a r a n m e n d i d i k k e p a d a h a l - h a l y a n g p o s i t i p m e s k i s u l i t , s e p e r t i o r a n g t u a y a n g m e n y u r u h a n a k n y a m e n y a p u , m e m b e r s i h k a n k a m a r s e n d i r i , m e s k i a d a p e m b a n t u . J e n i s c i n t a i n i d i s e b u t a l Q u r ' a n k e t i k a m e n y a t a k a n b a h w a A l l a h t i d a k m e m b e b a n i s e s e o r a n g k e c u a l i s e s u a i d e n g a n k e m a m p u a n n y a , l a y u k a l l i f u l l a h n a f s a n i l l a w u s ` a h a ( Q / 2 : 2 8 6 ) S a l a m C i n t a ,